The Two Coreys- Another Message to Corey Haim

Hi everyone. Well, tonight I watched, "The Two Coreys." I have another message for Corey Haim.

Corey... Hang in There!!! As for dating... women pick up on a lack of confidence. Be confident. You're an actor... act confident. :-) Also, try to meet people in new ways. You could try the internet, but, based on personal experience, that's probably not the best way to meet people. Sometimes they're really "fake" on those dating sites. Since you're a celebrity, that could hurt you with online dating. If you want to try that method though, try sites like eHarmony.com, not match.com or matchmaker.com. Avoid the free online dating sites. Try to choose women who like some of the same things that you like (but NOT actors). What do you like to do? Hiking, biking, surfing, skateboarding, art galleries, hanging out at the beach? What do you like to do (besides drugs)? Try to meet women while you're being active. Don't date women in their early to mid-20's (unless you want to date my little sister, who's 24 *smile*). Stick with women closer to your age... late 20's or early to mid-30's. The women closer to your age are probably less likely to have an "agenda" and more likely to want to get to know you and settle down. Look for women who are already settled in their career, not women who are still searching for a career path. The type of woman?... Well, figure out what you want and stick with it. Don't waive on that one bit. Don't be too aggressive. That rarely works. If a woman likes you, she'll let you know in one way or another when she's ready to.

Corey... on the subject of acting. Keep hanging in there. You're still a hottie. :-) You know it's a tough business. There are more challenges than successes but don't give up. We love you. Keep going to auditions. Prove your worthiness for a part by performing well in your auditions. Also, you seem to focus more on movies. Try television. It may or may not work but it's a great medium and the general public prefers television to "straight to video" movies. Maybe you could start again by auditioning for cameos in TV shows and made for TV movies. You won't immediately be back on top but you will have the opportunity to work and prove to everyone who doubts you that you can and will be reliable. Like with any job, actors need to be reliable. The directors and everyone else on a set needs to know that they can depend on you. That's how you can show everyone that you are, in fact, ready and willing to be working again. Also, another gentle reminder... keep your head on straight and don't let yourself get stressed or worried about a job. That will be your downfall, if you do. If you let yourself get worried, you'll do the same thing you did with "The Lost Boys part 2." That would be horrible. I want to see you succeed!!! :-) Good luck Corey and my prayers are with you.