Wednesday, August 13, 2008

CASA

Court Appointed Special Advocate. This is my new endeavor. It's a bit more difficult to get into social work than I expected, without a degree in that field. I could probably do it but will need a bit more experience in the related subject. Yesterday I saw an ad on TV for CASA and I checked out the website. CASA volunteers do exactly what I'd like to do... help kids in the system find permanent, loving homes. Too bad it's not a paid position. Today I decided to look up the CASA office in my area and give them a call. I called them and the lady sounded pretty excited that I was interested in volunteering. They also have a new training session starting in September. I happen to have this Friday off work and her availability is open on Friday so I scheduled to meet with her on Friday to find out more about the program and stuff. My only concern is working all of this into my work schedule. I REALLY hope that it's possible. Luckily, I'm just working at the ski shop now (instead of two jobs) so I should be able to make the time. I hope David, my boss, is helpful too. He's kind of self-involved so I hope that he understands my desire and need to do this and will work with me on my schedule to make it possible. We'll see. He's back from vacation tomorrow. Well, wish me luck in my journey to make a difference in Children's lives. :-)

Monday, August 11, 2008

New Kids




I had to post this New Kids picture. My boyfriend was looking over my sholder as I was checking out the New Kids blog site (where this picture was the header). Anyway, I was commenting on how good looking the guys are and Zac thought that Danny and Donnie (in the middle) would be the ones that I would like the most (with looks). Actually, I like the clean cut look better. Although, you probably wouldn't guess that based on how Zac looks. (He's in the top picture.) Zac's hot but he's "smokin' hot" when he's shaven. :-)
I sure am excited to see the guys in concert in November. I can't wait to meet them. Seeing all of the pictures online and their Blog updates just makes the anticipation stronger. I'll be smiling from ear to ear all day on November 14.

Saturday, August 2, 2008

The Two Coreys- For Corey Haim

I just saw a clip at people.com of tomorrow's episode of "The Two Coreys." I'd like to think that Corey Haim isn't using, like he claims when Todd Bridges and Pauly Shore show up at Feldman's house to try to get him to stop using but I'm afraid that he is using.

Corey... only you know for sure if you're using (unless there are other people around you when you are) but I really hope you're not and if you are, PLEASE get help. Apparently rehab didn't help you in the long run, all of those years ago. Maybe you should try a different route. Check out NA. A friend of mine is involved with that support group and it continues to help him. Once you've been an addict, you always will be, even when you're clean. You know that. Just don't be a user until it kills you. I, like many of your fans, really want to see you succeed (both personally and professionally). You sure as heck can't succeed if you're using. The only result of that is tragedy. Don't let the drugs get the best of you. I don't want to hear about you dying of an overdose or suicide or something. You're too young, with too much to live for and strive for.

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

The New Kids on YouTube

Well, obviously, I got that video below from YouTube. I wanted to comment on the guys more though. Since I don't feel like setting up a user name and password for YouTube, I'm going to post my comments here.

I find it amusing that so many people on YouTube are commenting that the New Kids are old. Really, they're not. I guess it depends on your age but, to me, they certainly are not old. Jon, who is the oldest, is only 9 years older than me. When I was a kid, that was a lot, but not now. Jon was born in 1968, Donnie and Danny were both born in 1969, Jordan was born in 1970 and Joe was born in 1972. I was born in 1977. That's not old. Also, the guys are still SMOKIN' HOT!!! :-) I think that it fit the video for them to have models and actresses who are in their 20's to be in the video. I think that's funny though because, my guess is, that most of the girls in the video weren't even in elementary school when the New Kids first came out. Those of us who are in our 30's and 40's now have been here for the guys the whole time... since the 1980's. Honestly, that's a pretty cool feeling. :-)

New Kids "Summertime" Video

Well, I felt very inclined to post this video. :-) This is the New Kids new video for their single, "Summertime." It looks good. My only complaint with the video is that Jon is not shown more in it. Given, Joe and Jordan were always my favorites but I think that Jon is just as important as the other guys. It takes all five to make the New Kids. I guess that Jon has always been the most soft-spoken of the guys and less into the spotlight but it would have been nice to see him in the video a bit more. One thing that was a little strange to see on the video was the guys with the girls. The fact that both Joe and Jordan are married, made it seem a little awkward when they were with the girls. Still cool though. Their new album, titled, "The Block," will be releasing on September 2. I'll be first in line to buy the CD and then put it into my iPod. :-)


Sunday, July 27, 2008

The Two Coreys- Another Message to Corey Haim

Hi everyone. Well, tonight I watched, "The Two Coreys." I have another message for Corey Haim.

Corey... Hang in There!!! As for dating... women pick up on a lack of confidence. Be confident. You're an actor... act confident. :-) Also, try to meet people in new ways. You could try the internet, but, based on personal experience, that's probably not the best way to meet people. Sometimes they're really "fake" on those dating sites. Since you're a celebrity, that could hurt you with online dating. If you want to try that method though, try sites like eHarmony.com, not match.com or matchmaker.com. Avoid the free online dating sites. Try to choose women who like some of the same things that you like (but NOT actors). What do you like to do? Hiking, biking, surfing, skateboarding, art galleries, hanging out at the beach? What do you like to do (besides drugs)? Try to meet women while you're being active. Don't date women in their early to mid-20's (unless you want to date my little sister, who's 24 *smile*). Stick with women closer to your age... late 20's or early to mid-30's. The women closer to your age are probably less likely to have an "agenda" and more likely to want to get to know you and settle down. Look for women who are already settled in their career, not women who are still searching for a career path. The type of woman?... Well, figure out what you want and stick with it. Don't waive on that one bit. Don't be too aggressive. That rarely works. If a woman likes you, she'll let you know in one way or another when she's ready to.

Corey... on the subject of acting. Keep hanging in there. You're still a hottie. :-) You know it's a tough business. There are more challenges than successes but don't give up. We love you. Keep going to auditions. Prove your worthiness for a part by performing well in your auditions. Also, you seem to focus more on movies. Try television. It may or may not work but it's a great medium and the general public prefers television to "straight to video" movies. Maybe you could start again by auditioning for cameos in TV shows and made for TV movies. You won't immediately be back on top but you will have the opportunity to work and prove to everyone who doubts you that you can and will be reliable. Like with any job, actors need to be reliable. The directors and everyone else on a set needs to know that they can depend on you. That's how you can show everyone that you are, in fact, ready and willing to be working again. Also, another gentle reminder... keep your head on straight and don't let yourself get stressed or worried about a job. That will be your downfall, if you do. If you let yourself get worried, you'll do the same thing you did with "The Lost Boys part 2." That would be horrible. I want to see you succeed!!! :-) Good luck Corey and my prayers are with you.

Sunday, July 20, 2008

A Message to Corey Haim

I've been a fan of Corey Haim and Corey Feldman since I was a kid. I always had a mad crush on Corey Haim. I loved the movies they did and have many of them on video.

Here's my message to Corey Haim... STOP IT!!!!! The last thing that I want to hear in the news is a story about you overdosing. It would be a total waste! You have a great deal of potential and you're letting it all pass you by. Yes, you were big in the 80's and you're struggling big time now. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. I understand that you feel like you're totally alone and nothing seems to go your way and you can't seem to get out of the rut you're in. I understand that you want to be as big as you were in the 80's again and that you don't feel like you're going to make it. You may never be that big again but you can succeed!!! Stop thinking that you won't succeed. The first thing you need to do though is stop blaming everyone else. You made the decisions you made. You got caught up in the "Hollywood lifestyle." Don't get caught up in it again. One of the most endearing traits of a well known actor is that they are down to earth. Try to be down to earth. The second, and probably most important thing you need to do, is get clean. I missed the episode of, "The Two Coreys" tonight but could probably catch it on YouTube. I understand that you showed up on set high. What the heck were you thinking!!?? Corey, there are hundreds of thousands of people in the US who would LOVE to have the opportunities you've had. Hang in there. You'll find success again. Do what you need to do to be successful in the industry again. Those of us who are true fans will always be there to support you. Even better, you have the chance to reunite with people you have a history with... some is good and some is bad. If there's one thing I've learned in my 30 years of life, it's that friends are one of the most important things in your life. We all change... good and bad. Hold on to those friendships, accept the differences that have developed and charish the similarities. There are still similarities. Corey, your fans will always be here for you. Heck, if I lived in L.A., I'd love to be your friend. I make a great friend. :-) I've always been someone who my friends can depend on for love, support and encouragement. As for your romantic relationships... hang in there. If I were single, I'd love to get to know you. :-) My suggestion is to check out girls who are down to earth. Don't date an actress and try to find someone who isn't "using" you. As for depression... I don't know a lot about it. In most cases anti-depressants work great but in your case, that probably would be one of the worst options. I think that it's great that you are in therapy. I hope that can help you and you continue to do it. Also, try to look at the positive things in your life. There are always good things, even when it seems like there aren't any, there are. You are pursuing your dream. You have fans who love you and want to see you succeed. Enjoy life. It's a wonderous thing. Help others. You will find a great deal of satisfaction in it. Also, remember, there is ALWAYS someone who is worse off than you. Do your best and pursue your dreams wholeheartedly. Don't do anything half-ass'd. We will support you 100%! Hang in there, bud. YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!